#1 – “Do You Believe In Conserving Water?”
35-year-old Cheryl recalls one of the best lines she’s ever heard: “I was at the bar when a guy came up and asked me if I believed in conserving water. I said yes, of course. So he says, why don’t we go take a shower together then? And believe me, we did.”
#2 – “You Have To Leave.Now”
Kenni, a 29-year-old girl remembers when a guy said this to her at a club: “I was dancing with my girlfriends when this guy pulled me aside and said, ‘You Have To Leave.Now.’ I asked him why and he said it was because I was making all of the other girls look ugly!
#3 – “How Do You Get Into That Outfit?”
Sophie, aged 27, recalls the time when a guy used this line to pick her up: I was at the bar when a guy came up and asked me ‘how do you get into that outfit?’ Long story short, HE got into that outfit. It was the best night of my life, bar none.”
#4 – “Feel How Nice This Material Is”
24-year-old Sasha remembers the time when a guy used this line on her: “I was at the mall when this guy I sort of knew came up and told me to ‘Feel how nice this material is,’ pointing to his shirt. I felt the material, and that’s when I looked up and he said, ‘Now that’s boyfriend material.’
#5 – “You Forgot To Tie Your Shoes”
21-year-old Lola remembers all too well the moment when a guy used this line on her: “I was at the beach wearing some sneakers when a guy told me to tie my shoes. As I knelt down to tie them, he said in a low whisper, ‘I don’t want you to fall for anyone else.'”
#6 – “Those Are Some Beautiful Stems.”
33-year-old Natalie reveals the night a guy used this line on her: “He walked up to me and said ‘Those Are Some Beautiful Stems.'” I looked at the wine glasses (which had long stems) and he shook his head and pointed to my legs.”
#7 – “That Thing Is Way Too Nice To Be Sitting On”
25-year-old Evy reveals the time when she was sitting at a fancy bar and someone used this line on her: “I was sitting on this really fancy chair that must have been an antique or something. A guy came up and said ‘That Thing Is Way Too Nice To Be Sitting On.’ I thought he meant the chair, but then he whispered in my ear that he meant my butt instead.”
#8 – “I Bet I Can Kiss You Without Even Touching You”
21-year-old Steph recalls the time when a guy tried this line on her: He said, ‘I bet I can kiss you without even touching you.’ I said okay, and he kissed me right on the lips! Then he said, ‘I guess I lost the bet!’ But I was hungry for more so I pulled him in for another kiss.
#9 – “You’re Almost A Ten Out Of Ten”
Claudine, aged 25, recalls when she was told this by a complete stranger: “A guy walked over to me and said, ‘You’re almost a ten out of ten.’ I was a little offended and wondered why I wasn’t a perfect ten. Then he leaned in close and said, ‘But I’m the one you need.'”
Some Nigerian guys tend to toast (woo) any girl they are interested in without even considering the time and place.
Not minding the location and with so much confidence, they approach you and begin to run their mouths, spitting lines they have specially practiced for wooing girls. Oftentimes, the thinking of certain guys is that they want to take the opportunity to toast the girl as they may not meet her again.
That’s true. However, you should be conscious of the places you intend to hit on a woman. Jumia Travel, the leading online bo0king agency identifies 6 places you should never toast a girl.
Even if she is Miss Nigeria, you should not toast a girl at the hospital. You don’t know her purpose at the hospital. You appear from nowhere to woo her. You are just disturbing her and wasting your time as she will not answer you.
You hear what it is called work. She is very busy at work and you still want to collect her number or you want to ask her out? She will just ignore you and at the end of the whole episode, you will be embarrassed. Well, some girls will have pity on you and walk you out.
The Church is a place to listen to the word of God and receive anointing. The same for the mosque. These places are not hubs for chasing women. But it is today. That doesn’t it make right.
In danfo buses/BRT Stations
Imagine in serious traffic (even when there is no traffic) inside one of those Lagos’s rickety danfos and these guy sitting beside is trying to get your attention. The girl will even be angry that under such harrowing and uncomfortable situation you are toasting her. What she just want is to get home. You are a distraction. For BRT stations, you see a girl standing in a long queue, you want to woo her. That is a wrong time.
We all go to the cinema for different reasons. Some go there to search for potential lovers. But the cinema is a place where you to enjoy the movie you paid for and leave. So, enjoy your movie and when it is over you can go talk to whomever you are interested in. Don’t do this immediately after the movie, though.
Her father’s house
When a Nigerian father sees their daughter with, they think about all sorts of things like she has joined bad gang. Most of which are negative. Hence, quite a number of girls don’t like guys wooing them in front of their father’s house especially if they are meeting you for the first time.
• Love is too weak a word for what I feel for you. One life is too small a time to express how madly I am in love with you.
• Even though Valentine’s day costs a lot more with a girlfriend, you are the one girl in this world who is totally worth it.
• Falling in love is like looking at the stars. If you pick one out of the billions and stare at it long enough all the others will melt away.
• A day without you in my life should never come and even if it does, let that be the last day of my life.
• A day without you is a day without sun, a night without you is a night without moon; a life without you is a life without life.
• I do not think often, I do not think much, but when I do, I think of you only.
• Sending you a load of kisses, a ton of hugs and all the love in this world on Valentine’s Day.
• You walked in, and the sun broke through the clouds. Suddenly, life was worth living, and it became this big adventure. Thank you for being part of my life.
• Curved high on a mountain, covered deep in dew, I saw these words… I LOVE YOU!
• Every moment I am not without you, my tears fill the ocean blue.
• God has created you only for me, because he knows no one can love you more than me!
• I am lucky to have a girlfriend who is beautiful, fun, smart, and crazy enough to go out with me.
• I am wondering how I got so lucky to have you as a girlfriend.
• Your smile sets my heart on fire.
• I have seen angels in the sky, I have seen snowfall in July, I have seen stars falling apart, but I haven’t seen anyone like you.
• No other relationship in my life could compare to the love we share. I’m enamored by your tender touch and your ravishing romance. Happy Valentine’s Day to my amazing love!
• You are a haven for my heart, a refuge for my soul.
• I consider myself to be the luckiest woman on this Earth and it’s only because I have found the most precious jewel of this world. It’s you, my love. You are the only thing that looks good on me.
• I couldn’t think of anything better to write in your card than the truth. I love you!
• I love my life because it gave me you. I love you because you are my life.
Source: Wishes & Quotes
At a certain point in your life, you will experience some pain, ache or you will just feel tired. This is a completely normal condition because we can’t always feel our best. However, you can stimulate your organs to work even better.
One particularly interesting and unconventional method provides immediate relief and you will feel at your best. It includes clothespins and they are placed at different points on the ears.
You might wonder why specifically the ears?
Helen Chin Lui, a reflexologist claims that the ear has a complete reflex map of the body. There are plenty of nerve endings and connectors to the central nervous system.
The ears contain 6 different spots that relate to specific organs and regions in the body. You just have to place a clothespin on the specific area of your choice and see the results.
1. The Upper Part of The Ear
This part of your ear is directly related to your back and shoulders. So, apply some pressure at this point, wait for a minute and the built-up tension will be gone.
2. The Top of The Ear’s Curve
This point is connected to your organs. So, if you feel some discomfort, apply the clothespin at this point and you will experience immediate relief. (Make sure you consult a doctor to find out the root cause of this discomfort).
3. The Upper-Middle Part of the Ear
This point is directly related to the joints. So, if you experience some stiffness of joint pain, apply some pressure at this specific point.
4. The Lower-Middle Part of The Ear
This point is connected to the throat and sinuses. So, a pressure on this point will help in case of a stuffy nose, congestion and will provide a good night’s sleep.
5. Above the Earlobe
This point has to do with digestion, so it will help you get rid of stomach and digestive pain. Also, you can use it in order to prevent such discomfort.
6. The Earlobe
The last but not the least important spot. It is related to the heart and head so by applying some pressure, you will relieve migraines, headaches and will promote heart’s health.
Here are 9 ways to know if someone loves you truly or not. You must read this!
1. They Are Not Selfish In Bed
Love making is the most important part of relationship, observe if your partner takes care of your likes and what turns you on.
2. They Will Stop You from Doing Something Irrational
If you are being crazy and taking wrong decisions, they will not be scared to show you the mirror. They have your best interest at heart. They will push you to do the right thing because that is what good human beings do.
3. They Are Not Insecure If You Don’t Pick Up Their Call
It shows that they trust you and they understand that you have genuine reasons for not picking up their call. They respect your time!
4. They Take Care Of You When You Are Sick
In case you fall ill your true lover will take care of you. They will ask you about how you have been doing, if you have taken your medicines on times and are eating well. The one who truly loves will call you several times to check on health. This indicates that this person loves you
5. They Seek and Respect Your Opinion
How you view a particular event or a person is important to them they respect your judgments regardless of whether you agree with them or not.
6. They Do Little Things to Make You Happy
It might be a soft peck on your cheek when you are out in public, holding hands under the table or they might write a love letter to you. They will shower you with love and affection whenever it is possible make every moment memorable. And they are not scared of a little PDA.
7. They Will Listen To You
They will patiently hear you rant about your boring jobs, friends and family. They will also give you their shoulder for comfort. They will tell you to do the best you can and to be nice to others because other relationships also matter.
8. They Are Not Afraid To Say I Love You!
They will tell you how much you mean to them, what they like about you and that they miss you when you are not around with all honesty and it will give you butterflies in your stomach every time they say it.
9. They Do Not Behave Differently In Front Of Friends Or Family
This means that they are not scared to show their love for you in front of friends and family. They are who they say they are. There is no mask.
These little things may often get unnoticed but they are extremely important. If that special someone does all these things, then never let them go!
Nowadays, couples tend to overlook that things are not going so well in their relationship. They face the fact that they need to draw a line between determination and desperation. You cannot make a partner care unless they want to by heart. If you started to wonder how you can make them care so the relationship could work, you’ve already come to the stage where your partner doesn’t care about any of it.
There is absolutely no use losing yourself in the process of loving another. It can happen that you may never regain yourself. It’s the same to them when you tell them how happy they make you and when you tell them they don’t.
1. They are too busy to give you time
Partners always give each other time in a relationship. In that way they show their care and love for each other.
2. They are indecisive
They keep playing the cat and mouse game: just when you give up, they are all into the relationship; when you call it quits, they start thinking of getting back together.
3. They make themselves the focus of attention
You always make sure your partner’s needs and desires etc. are met with accordingly, but that leaves little or no room for you and all you do for them in their ‘me-world’.
4. They put the blame on you
You’ve probably noticed that even though it’s not your fault, you partner manages to blame you for little things and big things in everyday life.
5. They treat you arrogantly
Treating others below you is a really bad thing, so if your partner acts in such a way where they use their high rank, charm or power to bring you down in any way then they do not care enough to protect your feelings.
6. Being disrespectful to you
What’s important to you and holds some special value, ought to be respected and cared for by those around you.
7. They are non-supportive
There is no good in being with someone who does not have your back.
8. They treat you like an outsider
You are with them, but they somehow manage to make you feel like an outsider.
9. They make you feel worthless
If your partner makes you feel like you cannot say or do anything right, do you really think they would act in such a way if they actually cared about how your relationship is progressing or should progress?
10. Their apologies do not mean anything
Your partner will commit the same things they would later be sorry for, but they actually aren’t.
11. They try to change you
If your partner cares about you, they would never try to change you, but a careless partner makes you change yourself in so many ways, you feel exhausted.
12. All sex, no love
You know when your partner literally stops caring about the relationship when they do not pay any attention to your actual feelings and respect you deserve from them.
13. They start cheating on you
Loyalty in a relationship is really important. If your partner actually cares about taking the relationship to a serious level, they will never cheat on you.
14. No efforts made to protect you
If your partner does not show any interest in saving you or not even asking you what you are going through, they do not care anymore.
15. They do not bother remembering what you say
When we really care about the person speaking, we listen to them, but when we do not care, we are just hearing.
16. They make you cry more than often
When your partner hurts you and makes you cry then does not even come and make sure you are okay, then you should ask yourself: Do I want to be with someone like that?
17. They have it all to themselves
Whether it’s going out on a Saturday night or planning a trip with friends together, when your partner doesn’t pay much heed into being with you and at least trying to maintain the relationship with you, they’ll keep all the good stuff for themselves and not bother including you in any of it.
18. They have commitment issues
It isn’t always you in a relationship. It’s also what the other person wants. If your partner has fear committing to a relationship, then you should start thinking about where that relationship is going.
Girls play hard to get almost all the time. It’s a good thing though or you wouldn’t really think she’s worth the effort. But sometimes, it’s easier to turn on a girl than date her.
When it comes to dating a girl, she instinctively knows you’re hitting on her. If you discreetly warm her up to your flirty touches, you’ll see that seducing a girl can be rather easy if she thinks you’re a great guy.
If you know how to be discreet, you can make a girl fall for you or even turn her on in just a few conversations.
But here, we’ll get to seducing a girl with just 20 simple questions, preferably via texts. It’s easy to ask these 20 questions when you’re sitting with her but if she feels uncomfortable or believes you’re trying too hard or going too fast, you may end up blowing your chances and you’ll have a hard time making her like you again.
On the other hand, by texting a few s exy questions to a girl, you can always make it seem like a joke if she doesn’t warm up to you. It’s easy, safe and a foolproof way to turn a girl on from a distance.
Use these questions and if you charm the girl the right way, you could charm the pants off her and make out with her by the time you reach the twentieth question!
Just use these questions and keep the conversation going by answering any other questions she may ask. It’ll all work out in your favor if you play it carefully and stick to these 20 questions all along the way.
And the best part, it’ll work wonders if she’s your girlfriend or even if she’s a flirty girl you have a crush on. Ask her these questions late at night for best results!
#1 Are you alone? This question is perfect to understand if she’s idle and all alone at home. You obviously can’t flirt or talk sex if her friends are around her. Say something bold like “I wish I could be there with you” when she reciprocates with an affirmative.
#2 What are you doing right now? Play it nice and slow. This can help you be certain that she’s alone and bored enough to give you her complete attention.
#3 Do you like cuddling when you lie in bed? Warm her up to a flirty conversation without overstepping the line. This can help open her up by talking about cuddling with someone else.
#4 What do you wear when you go to bed? / What are you wearing? A curious question that’s perfect to ask a girl when she’s in bed already. It’s personal, and yet not too sexual. Say something like “Gosh, I can only imagine how cute you look right now” when she describes herself.
If it’s your girlfriend, ask her what’s she’s wearing and if she doesn’t mention her lingerie *which she may not without a bit of coaxing*, ask about her lingerie and also the color. A perfect start.
#5 What do you think you look sexiest in? Get her to talk sexual by talking about her sexy clothing. It’s flattering and definitely sexual.
#6 Have you ever watched someone else make out accidentally or on purpose? This question gets both of you in the mood. And yet, by directing it at a third person, you can avoid any uncomfortable situation at the start.
#7 Has a guy even touched you or discreetly groped you while clubbing or in a crowded place? Girls have a thing about sexual groping. Even if it’s accidental, it’s something they just don’t forget. You can answer something like “I wish I could have been that guy!” after she tells you about an incident she likes. [Read: How to touch her and arouse her discreetly without making it obvious!]
#8 Have you ever made out with a guy just because you were horny at that time? Find out if she’s a girl who can be coaxed into having sex with a guy in the heat of the moment.
#9 If you had a pair of x-ray glasses, which part of a guy’s body *below his shoulders* would you see first? Time to get naughty. Really, how many things can a girl take a look at below a guy’s shoulders? Let her answer the question so you always make it seem like she’s the one talking dirty and not you.
#10 Do you like boxers or briefs? This is a clichéd question and even if a girl doesn’t care about it, she’d most probably say that she likes a boxer. Answer this question by telling her what you’re wearing. The whole focus here is to get her to think of your package without really making it obvious.
#11 What’s your secret move to turn a guy on? By asking her to visualize making out with a guy and describe it to you, you’re making her fantasize about sex. And at the same time, she may go into details just to prove how good she is sexually.
#12 If there’s one place a guy should touch you to make you horny, which is that? This goes straight to sex and arousal. And if she does answer this truthfully, in all probability, she’s already aroused. [Read: 10 minutes and 10 moves – Make her want to kiss you!]
#13 Does a massage make you wet? A full body massage makes almost all girls wet. You can always tell her something like “Just so you know, I came first in my masseuse class and I would love to give you a massage. And don’t worry, now that I know you get horny while getting a massage, I’ll linger in all the right places.”
#14 If I kissed your lips accidentally while kissing goodbye, would you mind it? Make her imagine your kiss. It’s a perfect question to get her to pucker up. [Read: 6 ways to kiss a friend accidentally and get away looking cute!]
#15 Do you like giving an oral or getting one? No matter what she answers, you can always answer with the opposite of what she says. If she likes giving an oral, say you like getting it. If she likes getting it, tell her you love giving it!