Below are some insights as to why the bad girls get hooked to the good guys.
Bad girls are smart
These girls are outgoing ladies who know how to mingle. They are ‘not dulling’ in the real sense of the word. They are most times beautiful ladies who are fashion as and pull attraction everywhere they step into. They understand that most of the good men out there have careers and could be wealthy. And to ease off the built up tension of work and other life issues, they pass out time in the clubs and bars. The good girls are hardly found in this kind of setting.
Force of attraction
Basic knowledge of Physics could be likened to real life situation here. Just like when objects that are electrically neutral with equal amounts of neutrons (negative charge) and protons (positive charge) connect when in close proximity, two individuals with different life styles bond too. Just as the protons could become negatively charged and the neutrons positively charged, the bad girl and the good guy would influence each other until they reach equilibrium. They become perfect for each other.
The bad girls are often ‘long legged’. They seem to have been everywhere and have heard things that could guide them in their sojourn in life. They know things the good girls don’t and have firsthand experience of places. They have the ability to place the men who approach them and identify the exceptionally good ones among them. They know the players and understand the ‘no-time-to-waste-men’. They recognise potentials in the men once they see them and go extra miles to keep the men attracted to them.
Like most good girls who keep their legs closed, some bad girls keep theirs even closer. They taunt the men until they have built up a sexual tension in them. However, most of the bad girls are wild. They seem to explore always and know how to please the men. They could take men to different pleasurable heights before pushing them over the edge. They leave the guys in cloud nine at the end of the whole thing. Every guy wants a woman that would drive him wild in bed and give him an unforgettable time. So the bad girl is picked over the good ones here.
One man’s meat is another man’s poison, they say. This explains why some men would deliberately choose a bad girl over a good girl even when they know about their escapades. Some bad girls after settling down with good men become submissive and trade their old habits for good ones. Men’s choice can’t be fully ascertained as one could never be sure of the magnetic force between them and the bad girls.
There’s time for everything. The bad girls can’t remain bad forever. They get tired of their old ways at certain points in time. They calm down and mellow when they have seen it all. This doesn’t make them less desirable, they remain piping hot because they maintain their dress sense and good looks. In fact, they become better people with improved mannerism and are able to live responsibly after.
Nursing profession is a calling, just like NUNS. These people always attend to patients in critical conditions as well as stable conditions. The psychological torture they go through make them lose interest in bedroom matters, which is why they are cold in bed.
It is also reported that Nurses, on duty, befriend doctors. So-when the husband is warming the bed alone, the nurse is warming a room in hospital alongside her “lover”, doctor. Sometimes-I have witnessed before-some nurses sleep with patients.
These days, it seems n*dity sells and most movie producers are cashing in by using actors and actresses to perpetuate the “crime”.
We’ve seen some of our favourite celebrities go na-ked on set to impress the audience. Most of them see the act as a daring as also a way of showing that they are open-minded. But in our society, it means something different as it defines you in a differentLIGHT and most of your fans are likely to take it on the negative side.
Even some veterans in the industry have condemned how nudity is being portrayed in movies these days and on the internet and proposed better ways of going about it, that will indicate what just happened without being vivid by showing all the na-kedness of the star. Unfortunately, this has fallen on deaf ears and it’s still going on with some even exposing themselves on the internet just for likes…Hmmm!!! Anyway, not all those who made it on this list actually did it for a movie, some did it out of their own free will and shared it on the internet. So without wasting much of your time, here are the nominees for our “Na-kedness Awards”. Feast your eyes.
John has starred in many movies that has seen him go na-ked on screen to the extent he even received some backlash from the public till he stepped out to defend himself, but unfortunately the harm has already been caused. In one of the scenes, he was so butt na-ked his penis even showed onCAMERA. He was seen sleeping with two ladies, then he walked out of bed to go to the washroom and said, “Ladies, get up”, but before he could squat, his “ding dong” was clearly visible. There are many other movies where he has been caughtPANTS down.
Majid Michel also appeared in some movie where he was na-ked and was busily making love to a lady in one of the scenes. He was clearly pictured na-ked on camera. There have also been other movies where in an attempt to make it appear real, they go na-ked, an example is the “Dons Of Sakawa” movie.
Martha is one of the female actresses who doesn’t mind going na-ked on set so long as it will make the movie appear good. This has earned her a bad reputation in the eyes of the public, with some calling her names. In the movie, “Hearts Of Men”, she and her friend called her ex-boyfriend who was about to get married and had sex with him before he proceeded to get married, which of course doesn’t make any sense in the movie. However, in that scene, Martha did not hesitate to show the full glare of her boobs to the camera and obviously many viewers (especially men) whoWATCHED the movie were able to describe her B00BS.
Yvonne Nelson has been seen in some movies going na-ked, especially on the cover of the “Hearts Of Men” movie where she went semi-nu.de whichGENERATED a lot of backlash from the public. She’s also been seen in some s.e.x scenes showing greater parts of her sacred areas.
outspoken actress has mentioned countless times that she doesn’t see anything wrong with going na-ked in a movie and will do it again if given the role. She received a lot of backlash when she showed most of her br.e.a.s.ts in aFASHIONmishap. Aside that, she’s appeared in movies having s.e.x and exposing major parts of her body in an explicit manner. In one of such scenes, she was seen with Jim Iyke, a Nigerian actor, going at it and his mouth was all over her breasts and in the full glare of the camera.
Agya Koo has always spoken against actors going na-ked on screen so it came as a shock when in the movie, Komfo Anokye, he was seen butt na-ked on screen. He denied it, but the producer clearly stated he offered him ¢1,500 to expose his bu.tt in the movie. In the story of Komfo Anokye, it is said that he went to take a bath in a river and some women laughed at him and he cursed them. To portray that part, the producer claimed he offered Agya Koo the said amount to go na-ked to make the scene real. That is the only time Agya Koo was seen na-ked in a movie.
Juliet Ibrahim In the movie, “4 Play”, Juliet was seen on camera having wild s.e.x with John Dumelo, exposing major parts of her body, with her br.e.a.s.ts in the full glare of viewers.
Most women like to talk…a lot. We talk about our feelings, our friends, our day. Mostly, we talk about that stuff with our girlfriends. But sometimes, we like to share it all with you. We don’t always need a solution.
What if all singles came with an operating manual? They might consist of your most unique character traits, some pivotal events that have transformed your life, your communication style, and what makes you happy. It would also list your worldview, your lifestyle, and what character traits your ideal partner might have.
You wouldn’t literally hand that book out to the people you date. That would be weird. But the manual would give you clarity on your authentic self, how you want others to see you, what type of partner you’re looking for and how you want to be treated in a relationship. It would help you identify the right-fit partner and walk away from the wrong ones. Most of all, it would give a potential partner a window into makes you happy.
Wouldn’t it be incredible if men and women knew how to make each other happier? As a dating coach who works with women over 40 to help them fall in love with their most aligned partner, I’ve asked hundreds of women what makes them happy in a relationship. This is what I’ve learned
1. Believe in yourself.
While women love a confident man, we don’t expect you to be confident all the time. We all have self-doubt, and we love your vulnerability and your willingness to share your fears. But we want you to believe in yourself, because if you don’t, it’s hard for us to take pride in you. This is not a gender thing. Women who believe in and love themselves are more appealing to emotionally healthy men, too.
2. Don’t take yourself too seriously.
Life can be challenging. Stress is a normal part of life. And when you can navigate through that stress and even come to see a bit of humor in life’s challenges, that’s quite attractive.
3. Follow through.
Say what you mean and do what you say you’ll do. No false promises. Don’t tell us you’ll call if you don’t mean it, even if you’re trying not to hurt our feelings. We don’t want your empty words. We want to know that your words are true. Accountability and trust are the cornerstones of a healthy relationship.
4. The little things matter.
We notice pretty much everything you do. Opening a door, being kind to the waiter, a sweet good morning text–we notice it all. Keep on doing those little acts of kindness, and if we have an argument, the positives will help us forgive the negatives.
Most women think it’s flirty and sweet when you poke a little fun at us, but if you overdo it, you will piss us off. And if you do go too far with the teasing and we tell you, please apologize. A sincere apology is one of the sexiest things a guy can do for a woman.
6. Take care of your appearance.
Most women put a lot of effort into their looks. We get expensive haircuts, put on makeup, and buy nice clothes and lingerie to feel good about ourselves and to look good for our guy. We love it when you put effort into your appearance, too. When you put in the energy to dress in your personal style, stay well groomed (and go lightly on the after-shave), we appreciate you for it. And if you’re clueless about fashion, why don’t you let us take you shopping? It would be a fun date night, and those new clothes might just turn us on…
7. Romance us.
It’s not classy to ask us about making love on a first date or speak about your “equipment” and how we’ll be pleased with what we find down there. We appreciate a little romance. And when I say romance, I’m not talking about expensive dinners on a yacht. I’m talking about getting to know a woman’s mind and spirit–and then her body. We’ll more readily trust your intentions if we feel seen and heard. When we feel appreciated and cherished, you’ll be pleasantly surprised with what you find between the sheets.
8. Take responsibility.
Occasionally, we do things that hurt one another in relationships. It’s inevitable. When feelings are hurt, we both need to take responsibility for our contribution. So, please take ownership for your share. Don’t say, “you’re too sensitive” or “you’re too critical.” If you’ve done something wrong, be open to discussing it. We’ll do the same. Let’s talk about the issues that come up and take responsibility for the emotions we feel – the highs, the lows, and everything in between.
9. Just listen, no fixing.
Most women like to talk…a lot. We talk about our feelings, our friends, our day. Mostly, we talk about that stuff with our girlfriends. But sometimes, we like to share it all with you. We don’t always need a solution. Sometimes, we want you to just listen to us. Please don’t roll your eyes or interrupt. Please don’t offer your advice if we don’t ask for it. We know you want to help, but sometimes, just being a sounding board is enough. In return, we’ll listen to you with the same respect.
10. We want to be cared for.
The bad boy may be alluring to some women, but ultimately we want a good man. We want to be cared for, cherished, and loved. If you do the dishes for us, don’t do it just to get laid. Do it because you want to make us happy and support us. We know the difference, and it means the world to us to have your support. We’ll do the same for you.
I am not a woman, of course, so it’s tricky for me to start talking of things women do.
In my interactions with other social beasts from both genders, I have learned a lot of things. Some of them; things women do behind closed doors!!!!
And I am here to tell you some of them!
Apart from dildos and vibrators, these are the most shocking revelations I got…
I couldn’t believe it at first but they made me to believe it! I was taken aback by this! How now? A torch? I thought this tool was for kumulika mwizi! Woe unto me, and to many others like me, who never knew that a torch could be used a pleasure tool by women!
A lonely career woman will go to every length to satisfy herself sexually when the need arises. Toothbrush was nowhere in my imaginations that it could be used as a sex tool. First, it’s pretty thin and long. So, how now??
Nokia Touch Phone
This was by far the most shocking response I ever expected! It had never registered in my mind that a cheap mobile phone, infamous for their very vigorous vibrations, could be used to give a woman some sexual pleasure.
Apparently, cucumbers aren’t only for consumption. Some of our ladies have devised an extra way of getting nutrients from them without necessarily adding them in the diet. Sometimes, a cucumber is the closest thing a woman has to a man’s touch! Amazing!
An innocent stroke of the hair can lead to a very steamy solo session for women who are having a hard time accommodating a man. The hairbrush handle can therefore become very handy!
Ooh gosh! This hit me straight in the face! Smack!!! Remote controls are used to ease the hustle of going all the way to the television set to press on the buttons as a way to enhance entertainment. But as a sex tool. Surely!
Woman, so you figure out that you are ready to give sex a try. You have been pre-warned by everyone that sex is reserved for marriage and how you should give your virginity to the man you intend to spend the rest of your life.
However, this is a new era and you do not care about “losing your virginity on your honeymoon”. You met someone and feel ready.
You have researched on everything out there about sex. What to expect, how to behave, the positions involved and what to do with your hands and so forth.
You bought sexy clothing that will enhance your femininity, you shaved everything minus your head- after all, you read that men like to grip onto a woman during…
And so you meet. He invited you to his place for a special night where you both know he will introduce you to womanhood after a sumptuous dinner.
Fast forward to two hours later in his bed, looking forward to the night of your life.
Your mind is busy analyzing the situation as events unfold.
Why are your bodies not in sync like you’ve seen in the movies? It’s like you are reacting to each other in the same way a fish out of water flounders about on land…
Plus what is that smell? Why does the room smell ‘rotten’ and stuffy?
Why do you feel so tired when he’s doing all the work?
Why did his breath catch towards the end? Why didn’t yours catch too?
Why is he sleeping?
You begin wondering why you feel sore when it was only one round?
Should you go take a shower and then wash the sheets that hold the evidence of your freely offered virtue?
And why do you feel so lonely? Shouldn’t you be both basking in the post-coital bliss together in a cuddle?
Why is he sleeping? Doesn’t he realize tonight was extremely special for you?
Should you do it again if that soreness doesn’t go away? Will it be that painful again?
Why was it so painful? Why did it feel like a watermelon was being passed through the eye of a needle?
Why was there little blood when you expected to ‘roll’ after you lost your virginity?
Why do you feel unsatisfied when you’ve just had a taste of it?
Love is a battlefield. Battlefield or not, everyone wants to find love. In a country of 150 million, you’d think it would be easy to find love. You’d be dead wrong. Finding love may be hard everywhere else. It is even more difficult in Naija when you throw in religion, tribe, personal preferences and more.
People regularly do crazy things for love. Everyone goes all out when trying to find love, both men and women. In the quest to find “the one”, here are some crazy things Naija women have resulted to:
1. Wearing bum pads
We know many Naija men are so obsessed with big Ikebe. Many women have resulted to buying and wearing fake nyash just to increase their butt size. This fake nyash is usually made of pads that are worn on the butt to make it look bigger.
2. Turning from coke to fanta
When the bleaching craze got to Nigeria, men started toasting more fair women leaving our dark skinned sisters in the cold. The “omo dudu” women struck back by going many shades lighter. Bleaching creams have been making loads of cash in Nigeria since then.
3. Going from Orobo to Lepa and vice versa
When it comes to partners, everyone has different tastes. Some men love orobo women while others go for the lepa kind. What does an Orobo woman do when her crush/love interest likes women who are lepa? Join fitfam so she can become lepa. And the lepas whose love interests like Orobos? It’s time to turn into glutton so they can add weight.
4. Making their hips lie
Shakira clearly didn’t know Nigerian women can make “their hips lie” when she released that song. With the invention of the hip pads (kin to the nyash pads), women can get killer hips to attract those Naija brothers who love big hips.
5. Joining team “I can’t breathe” aka waist trainer gang
The struggle to look like Kim K is real. With the way men adore Toolz and other celebs with the hour glass figures, many regular Naija women got in on the action with waist trainers. You won’t be able to laugh, breathe well and eat. But it’s a small price to pay to look like Toolz.
In the photo above, a young lady is seen standing inside what is clearly a nightclub as she poses for the camera.
However,a man standing behind her has got everyone talking about.
At first glance it would see like there is nothing wrong with him but on a closer look, one can clearly see that his head is not visible on his shoulders.
The lady in the picture reportedly went to the club and took pictures without bothering to check them.
However, when she got home, she began to go through the photos she took when she saw one photo with a tall, headless man in it, while the others who appear in the same photo have their heads intact.
Social media users have reacted differently to the development.
Some have said the photo proves that there are demons living among human beings.
However others believe that it is all the work of photoshop.
What do you think of the photo?
The Catholic Archbishop of Kampala, Cyprian Kizito Lwanga, has warned women against beating their husbands, saying they “should love and respect them”.
He was reacting to a police report about Mpingi district in the Uganda’s central region, which showed that five out 10 reported cases of domestic assault involved women beating their husbands.
Ugandan newspaper, Daily Monitor quotes the Archbishop of Kampala, which is Uganda’s capital, as saying women should accept men as the head of families:
Do you want to take over power from men in your families? I think you want to challenge God who tells us that men are the heads of the family. Stop torturing the innocent servants of God. There is no need for you [women] to behave like some people we are seeing nowadays in the country who are merciless.”
A Bodybuilder identified as Giannis Magkos wasn’t pleased with the results of the International Federation of Bodybuilders Diamond Cup in Athens over the weekend, and made sure to let one of the judges know.
Magkos won the 100kg division, but lost the overall competition. Footage has since surfaced showing Magkos approaching longtime IFBB judge Armando Marquez afterwards and slapping him across the face.
According to Australia’s Yahoo7 News, there are reports that Magkos then knocked over all the judges’ tables and pulled out his p3nis.